Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Just be Friends

We can easily define what is a true friend. There are no boundaries in friends, different from a boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. A true friend should be the one you can really trust and the one you can share everything. And everything means all things, not even a dirty little secrets. That is why they are called friends. If you want to keep secrets, being fake to each other, why bother being friends. Even though sometimes we can found a complicated friendship because they just want to keep their pride, the question is "Why bother?". It's a waste of time to create a fake friendship.
Being friends with the opposite sex sometimes is more interesting, Even though some doesn't believe that this kind of friendship exist without the presence of romance. But I do believe and we can learn so much thing from each other, because the different point of view, different emotion and thoughts. But Don't fall in love, will be more complicated than you can think off. You can loose a lover but don't loose a friend , it's a major lost.
Friendship should be more special than boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, nothing to be fake about because you know you will always have them whatever happen, no cheating, no lies, no backstabbing. If these things happens, Don't bother wasting time to ask why it is happen because it is simple, they are not your friend.
Choose your friend wisely because it is easier to pick up an enemy than to pick up a true friend. Your friends will determine what social circle you are in. Good ones or Bad ones, Supportive ones or Destructive ones.
Accept people for what they are, we are all unique for what we are. Don't try to change people, Try to change yourself then everything else will change with you. No expectation is needed, everyone just seems to understand each other for what they are and won't interfere as long as it is not destroying the character and the person itself. A true relationships should understand this.
Now think and starting counting your REAL friends.

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