Friday, November 11, 2011

Family

Don't be mistaken by the word of family. Not all family are perfect happy text book family like it was thought to us at School. Family is about value. Family is about foundation what made us to be what kind of person we are now.
Some family can be really bond together and some are just can't. But don't be mistaken by the outside appearance, the silent mutual understanding sometimes is better than fake actions. Sometimes the concept to protect, to help, to care may not be sincere. I heard many backstabbing stories between family members. Many lies and fake things just to keep one's purpose without thinking of other feeling or happiness. Of course this is a common thing in social life. But in a family? Our family, the closest person in our life (should be). Should an ego, be forced to others, should other aspect ruin the ideal concept of a family. I should bluntly say the most common aspect is money, heritage and wealth. Where is the value?  Is it worth?
Strange but often happen is warnings or rules that parents made are so hard to understand and complicated even though we know that they are a form of care and love. But sometimes they also do not realize that world are simply different, life is different for every person, value is different for every person even for identical twins. Understanding is the new level of care
Just simply respect each other, care for their happiness 1st, family is about love, just like what I've wrote about Love Life. "I love you" means sincerity, nothing in return, unconditional.
Love them with all your heart, protect them WISELY with your life, Respect their hope and dreams. We will never know when the time comes, even a simple goodbye will be impossible to said.

This one is dedicated specially to my late Dad, a great teacher, a wise preacher, an excellent leader, a true friend that really listen with understanding, a true warrior (literally a martial artist) and a smart entrepreneur. Best Father anyone can ever wish for.

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