Social Phenomena

This is my own words to describe what I am going to write. At first I don't have a clue what is the word to represents it.
This is about relationships. What is the first thing that came up in your mind if you heard the word relationships?  Two individuals, two different individuals with one commitment, one purpose or maybe even different purposes. Two individuals can have many similarity or a lot differences. And different background. How about same sex relationships? not in a regular way of a friendship, I mean more than friends. Maybe some people will always call them a phenomena of the social life. But some people who live in that environment will have a different point of view. Are we going to judge? what is more important, finding the odds or finding the love? We may speak of them, we may look at them differently, but have you ever really know the story? I don't think it is easy for them to be different too. Spread the love not the odds.
Some people have a relationships to fulfill their ego, their needs. Too many reason for two individuals can be together not because of love, not because of unconditional feelings that simply just because they need each other for what they are. Too many factor that influence a relationships, such as family, environment, work, power, matter and many others
Either we stand as a spectators or we are the actor in the stage of relationships, either you see with your eyes or with your heart, with your logic or with your feelings.
I realize that relationships is a very sensitive topics to be discussed. Every single individuals have their own reasons to be together or to be apart , we all knows not all relationships ends with a happy ending. Hopefully not to judge or offend anyone, we just need to be aware, where we want to stand. The one that gets hurt or the one that gets what we want. Know what you seek, what you want a relationship. Love is never blind, sometimes we just don't want to see clearly when we are in love. Stay awake, be smart, spread love.
In the End...is it a Phenomena or not ? It depends on which point of view are we see, what value that we held. Each person just want to be Happy. But do not search for happiness but live happily. Let's have a good social live, know our positions, know where we stand, there will always be a new phenomena in life. That's Life.